1. It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not.
2. I wished for nothing beyond her smile, and to walk with her thus, hand in hand, along a sun-warmed, flower-bordered path.
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1. It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not.
2. I wished for nothing beyond her smile, and to walk with her thus, hand in hand, along a sun-warmed, flower-bordered path.
1. Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.
1. Love at first sight is easy to understand; it’s when two people have been looking for each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.
2. Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.
At this page, you will find two love quotes by Abraham Lincoln. Besides the love quotes, you can also expect famous sayings by him and a short excerpt of him from Wikipedia.
1. My wife is as handsome as when she was a girl, and I…fell in love with her; and what is more, I have never fallen out.
2. Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?
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Abraham Lincoln (February 12, 1809 – April 15, 1865) was the 16th President of the United States. He successfully led the country through its greatest internal crisis, the American Civil War, preserving the Union and ending slavery. As the war was drawing to a close, Lincoln became the first American president to be assassinated.
Before his election in 1860 as the first Republican president, Lincoln had been a country lawyer, an Illinois state legislator, a member of the United States House of Representatives, and twice an unsuccessful candidate for election to the U.S. Senate. As an outspoken opponent of the expansion of slavery in the United States, Lincoln won the Republican Party nomination in 1860 and was elected president later that year.
He introduced measures that resulted in the abolition of slavery, issuing his Emancipation Proclamation in 1863 and promoting the passage of the Thirteenth Amendment to the Constitution, which passed Congress before Lincoln’s death and was ratified by the states later in 1865. Lincoln closely supervised the victorious war effort, especially the selection of top generals, including Ulysses S. Grant. Historians have concluded that he handled the factions of the Republican Party well, bringing leaders of each faction into his cabinet and forcing them to cooperate.
Lincoln successfully defused the Trent affair, a war scare with Britain, in 1861. Under his leadership, the Union took control of the border slave states at the start of the war.
Additionally, he managed his own reelection in the 1864 presidential election. Copperheads and other opponents of the war criticized Lincoln for refusing to compromise on the slavery issue. Conversely, the Radical Republicans, an abolitionist faction of the Republican Party, criticized him for moving too slowly in abolishing slavery. Even with these road blocks, Lincoln successfully rallied public opinion through his rhetoric and speeches; his Gettysburg Address is but one example of this.
At the close of the war, Lincoln held a moderate view of Reconstruction, seeking to speedily reunite the nation through a policy of generous reconciliation. His successor in the White House, Andrew Johnson, also wanted reconciliation among white Americans, but failed to protect the rights of newly freed slaves. Lincoln’s assassination in 1865 was the first presidential assassination in American history. He has since consistently been ranked by scholars as one of the greatest U.S. Presidents. (more detailed reading of Abraham Lincoln at Wikipedia)
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Famous Sayings from Abraham Lincoln
1. All I am, or can be, I owe to my angel mother.
2. Allow the president to invade a neighboring nation, whenever he shall deem it necessary to repel an invasion, and you allow him to do so whenever he may choose to say he deems it necessary for such a purpose - and you allow him to make war at pleasure.
3. Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.
4. As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy.
5. Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.
6. Character is like a tree and reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
7. Discourage litigation. Persuade your neighbors to compromise whenever you can. As a peacemaker the lawyer has superior opportunity of being a good man. There will still be business enough.
8. Don’t worry when you are not recognized, but strive to be worthy of recognition.
9. Fourscore and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.
10. I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand with anybody that stands right, and stand with him while he is right, and part with him when he goes wrong.
11. I don’t like that man. I must get to know him better.
12. I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him.
13. If there is anything that a man can do well, I say let him do it. Give him a chance.
14. If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely will.
15. In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.
16. My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure.
17. Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.
18. People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.
19. When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.
1. To love a person is to learn the song that is in their heart, And to sing it to them when they have forgotten.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Arne Garborg, born Aadne Eivindsson Garborg (25 January 1851 - 14 January 1924) was a Norwegian writer.
Garborg championed the use of Landsmål (now known as Nynorsk, or New Norwegian), as a literary language; he translated the Odyssey into it. He founded the weekly Fedraheim in 1877, in which he urged reforms in many spheres including political, social, religious, agrarian, and linguistic. He was married to Hulda Garborg.
More Arne Garborg’s Quote
It is said that for money you can have everything, but you cannot. You can buy food, but not appetite; medicine, but not health; knowledge, but not wisdom; glitter, but not beauty; fun, but not joy; acquaintances, but not friends; servants, but not faithfulness; leisure, but not peace. You can have the husk of everything, but not the kernel.
1. The porcupine, which one must handle gloved, may be respected, but is never loved.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Arthur Guiterman (pronounced /ˈɡɪtərmən/; November 20, 1871 - January 11, 1943) was an American writer best known for his humorous poems.
Guiterman was born of American parents in Vienna, graduated from the College of the City of New York in 1891, and was married in 1909 to Vida Lindo. He was an editor of the Woman’s Home Companion and the Literary Digest. In 1910, he co-founded the Poetry Society of America, and later served as its president in 1925-26.
An example of his humor is a poem that talks about modern progress, with rhyming couplets such as “First dentistry was painless;/Then bicycles were chainless”. It ends on a more telling note:
“Now motor roads are dustless,
The latest steel is rustless,
Our tennis courts are sodless,
Our new religions, godless.”
Another Guiterman poem, “On the Vanity of Earthly Greatness“, illustrates the philosophy also incorporated into his humorous rhymes:
“The tusks which clashed in mighty brawls
Of mastodons, are billiard balls.
The sword of Charlemagne the Just
Is Ferric Oxide, known as rust.
The grizzly bear, whose potent hug,
Was feared by all, is now a rug.
Great Caesar’s bust is on the shelf,
And I don’t feel so well myself.”
1. The art of love … is largely the art of persistence.
2. Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they’re alive and human.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Albert Ellis (September 27, 1913 – July 24, 2007) was an American psychologist who in 1955 developed rational emotive behavior therapy. He held M.A. and Ph.D. degrees in clinical psychology from Columbia University and founded and was the president and president emeritus of the New York City-based Albert Ellis Institute. He is generally considered to be one of the originators of the cognitive revolutionary paradigm shift in psychotherapy and the founder of cognitive-behavioral therapies. Based on a 1982 professional survey of U.S. and Canadian psychologists, he was considered as the second most influential psychotherapist in history (Carl Rogers ranked first in the survey; Sigmund Freud was ranked third).
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Famous Sayings from Albert Ellis
1. As a result of my philosophy, I wasn’t even upset about Hitler. I was willing to go to war to knock him off, but I didn’t hate him. I hated what he was doing.
2. By not caring too much about what people think, I’m able to think for myself and propagate ideas which are very often unpopular. And I succeed.
3. I get people to truly accept themselves unconditionally, whether or not their therapist or anyone loves them.
4. I had a great many sex and love cases where people were absolutely devastated when somebody with whom they were compulsively in love didn’t love them back. They were killing themselves with anxiety and depression.
5. I think the future of psychotherapy and psychology is in the school system. We need to teach every child how to rarely seriously disturb himself or herself and how to overcome disturbance when it occurs.
6. Let’s suppose somebody abused you sexually. You still had a choice, though not a good one, about what to tell yourself about the abuse.
7. People don’t just get upset. They contribute to their upsetness.
8. People got insights into what was bothering them, but they hardly did a damn thing to change.
9. The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
10. There’s no evidence whatsoever that men are more rational than women. Both sexes seem to be equally irrational.
11. We teach people that they upset themselves. We can’t change the past, so we change how people are thinking, feeling and behaving today.
12. You largely constructed your depression. It wasn’t given to you. Therefore, you can deconstruct it.
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1. It has been wisely said that we cannot really love anybody at whom we never laugh.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Agnes Repplier (April 1, 1855–November 15, 1950) was an American essayist born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Her essays are esteemed for their scholarship and wit.
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Famous Sayings from Agnes Repplier
1. Democracy forever teases us with the contrast between its ideals and its realities, between its heroic possibilities and its sorry achievements.
2. Humor brings insight and tolerance. Irony brings a deeper and less friendly understanding.
3. It is as impossible to withhold education from the receptive mind, as it is impossible to force it upon the unreasoning.
4. It is impossible for a lover of cats to banish these alert, gentle, and discriminating friends, who give us just enough of their regard and complaisance to make us hunger for more.
5. There are few nudities so objectionable as the naked truth.
1. I have learned not to worry about love; But to honor its coming with all my heart.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Alice Malsenior Walker (born February 9, 1944) is an American author. She has written at length on issues of race and gender, and is most famous for the critically acclaimed novel The Color Purple for which she won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction. She was born and raised in Georgia.
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Famous Sayings by Alice Walker
1. Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get you’ve got to make yourself.
2. No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.
3. The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.
4. In nature, nothing is perfect and everything is perfect. Trees can be contorted, bent in weird ways, and they’re still beautiful.
5. I try to teach my heart not to want things it can’t have.
6. Nobody is as powerful as we make them out to be.
7. The animals of the world exist for their own reasons. They were not made for humans any more than black people were made for white, or women created for men.
8. It’s so clear that you have to cherish everyone. I think that’s what I get from these older black women, that every soul is to be cherished, that every flower Is to bloom.
1. I look at you looking at me, Now I know why the best things are free, How you’ve changed my world You’ll never know, I’m different now, You’ve helped me grow.