Posted on Oct 11, 2008 under American relationship consultant, Are You the One for Me?, B, Barbara de Angelis, Best Selling Author, How to Make Love All the Time, Real Moments, Renowned Relationship and Personal Development Expert, Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know, TV Personality |
Barbara de Angelis Love Quotes and Famous Sayings
1. If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.
2. You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.
3. Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference.
4. Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible – it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
5. The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It’s a choice you make – not just on your wedding day, but over and over again – and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.
6. Love’s greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred.
7. The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Barbara De Angelis (1951 – ) (Ph.D.) is an American relationship consultant, lecturer and Best Selling Author, TV Personality, Renowned Relationship and Personal Development Expert. She is one of America’s most renowned experts on relationships and personal growth and has fourteen best-selling books in these fields, such as New York Times best-selling books “How to Make Love All the Time“, “Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know“, “Are You the One for Me?“, “Real Moments“. Her infomercial “Making Love Work” won an award as Best Infomercial of 1994.
She was the founder and Executive Director of the Los Angeles Personal Growth Center for 12 years and is president of Shakti Communications, Inc.
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Famous Sayings by Barbara de Angelis
1. A man’s brain has a more difficult time shifting from thinking to feeling than a women’s brain does.
2. Difficult times always create opportunities for you to experience more love in your life.
3. Men aren’t the way they are because they want to drive women crazy; they’ve been trained to be that way for thousands of years. And that training makes it very difficult for men to be intimate.
4. No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.
5. The moment in between what you once were, and who you are now becoming, is where the dance of life really takes place.
6. The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.
7. What allows us, as human beings, to psychologically survive life on earth, with all of its pain, drama, and challenges, is a sense of purpose and meaning.
8. Women need real moments of solitude and self-reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away.
9. Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.
10.You can’t ask for what you want unless you know what it is. A lot of people don’t know what they want or they want much less than they deserve. First you have figure out what you want. Second, you have to decide that you deserve it. Third, you have to believe you can get it. And, fourth, you have to have the guts to ask for it.
11. No matter what age you are, or what your circumstances might be, you are special, and you still have something unique to offer. Your life, because of who you are, has meaning.
12. The greatest gift you and your partner can give your children is the example of an intimate, healthy, and loving relationship.
13. Only when your consciousness is totally focused on the moment you are in can you receive whatever gift, lesson, or delight that moment has to offer.
Posted on Oct 09, 2008 under 100 most influential people, B, Bruce Lee, Chinese American, Cultural Icon, Founder of Jeet Kune Do, Hong Kong Actor, Jun Fan, Lǐ Xiăolóng, Lǐ Zhènfān, Martial Artist, Most Influential Martial Artist, Practitioner of Wing Chun, 李小龙, 李振藩 |
Bruce Lee Love Quotes and Sayings
1. Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love become as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Bruce Lee (Jun Fan, 李振藩, 李小龍; pinyin: Lǐ Zhènfān, Lǐ Xiăolóng; 27 November 1940 – 20 July 1973) was a Chinese American and Hong Kong actor, martial artist, philosopher, film director, screenwriter, practitioner of Wing Chun and founder of the Jeet Kune Do concept. He is considered by many as the most influential martial artist of the 20th century, and a cultural icon. He is the father of actor Brandon Lee and of actress Shannon Lee. He was named by Time Magazine as one of the 100 most influential people of the 20th century.
Lee was born in San Francisco, California, and raised in Hong Kong until his late teens. His Hong Kong and Hollywood-produced films elevated the traditional Hong Kong martial arts film to a new level of popularity and acclaim, and sparked the second major surge of interest in Chinese martial arts in the West. The direction and tone of his films changed and influenced martial arts and martial arts films in Hong Kong and the rest of the world as well. He is noted for his roles in five feature length films, Lo Wei’s The Big Boss (1971) and Fist of Fury (1972); Way of the Dragon (1972), directed and written by Bruce Lee; Warner Brothers’ Enter the Dragon (1973), directed by Robert Clouse, and The Game of Death (1978).
Lee became an iconic figure, particularly among the Chinese, as he portrayed Chinese national pride and Chinese nationalism in his movies. While Lee initially trained in Wing Chun, he later rejected well-defined martial art styles, favoring instead to utilize useful techniques from various sources.
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Sayings by Bruce Lee
1. A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough.
2. Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.
3. Ever since I was a child I have had this instinctive urge for expansion and growth. To me, the function and duty of a quality human being is the sincere and honest development of one’s potential.
4. If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.
5. If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.
6. If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.
7. Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.
8. Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.
Bill Wilson Love Quote and Saying
1. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Bill Wilson (born 1948, in south Boston, Massachusetts) is the founder and Sr Pastor of Metro Ministries, America’s largest ministry to children with branches in various nations. He is a well-known speaker, author, pastor and advocate for poor, inner city children all over the world.
More Quotes
1. Guilt is really the reverse side of the coin of pride. Guilt aims at self-destruction, and pride aims at the destruction of others.
Britney Spears’ Love Quotes and Sayings
1. When you’re comfortable with someone you love, the silence is the best.
2. With love, you should go ahead and take the risk of getting hurt… because love is an amazing feeling.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Britney Jean Spears (born December 2, 1981) is an American pop singer and entertainer. Born in Mississippi and raised in Louisiana, Spears first appeared on national television in 1992 as a contestant on the Star Search program. At age 12 she performed as a cast member in Disney Channel’s television series The All New Mickey Mouse Club from 1993 to 1994. In 1997, Spears signed a recording contract with Jive, which would lead to the release of her debut album … Baby One More Time in 1999. The album peaked at number one in Billboard 200 and has since sold over 25 million copies worldwide. Her success continued with the release of her second studio album, Oops!… I Did It Again in 2000, which has sold over 20 million copies worldwide. The release of her first two albums established her as a pop icon and is credited for influencing the revival of teen pop in the late 1990s.
In 2001, she released her third studio album Britney and played as the starring role in the film Crossroads. She assumed creative control of her fourth studio album, In the Zone released in 2003, which made her the only female artist of the Nielsen Soundscan era to have her first four albums debut at number one. After the release of her first greatest hits album Greatest Hits: My Prerogative, Spears experienced personal struggles and her career went under hiatus. This was until her fifth studio album, Blackout was released in 2007. Her sixth studio album, Circus was released in 2008, and also debuted at number one on the Billboard 200 albums chart with the hit single “Womanizer” which became Spears second single to peaked at number one in Billboard Hot 100 since her debut single, nearly 10 years later. In late 2009, Spears released The Singles Collection which includes her third number one hit single in the United States entitled “3″.
As of early 2010, Spears has sold over 95 million albums worldwide, from her albums. On December 11, 2009, Billboard named Spears as one of the best selling acts of the 2000s, solely based on album sales as well as the 8th overall best act of the decade based on album sales, chart success, and cultural relativity. She is ranked as the eight best-selling female recording artist in the U.S., having sold more than 32 million copies of her albums and all certified by the Recording Industry Association of America. Spears is currently the fifth best-selling artist act of the decade in the country, as well as the top-selling female album artist.
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Other Sayings by Britney Spears
1. I always wanted to be a singer, it’s what I wanted to do since I was little. I’m doing it now and I couldn’t be happier.
2. I don’t like defining myself. I just am.
3. I don’t really have time to sit down and write. But when I think of a melody, I call up my answering machine and sing it, so I won’t forget it.
4. I don’t understand the whole dating thing. I know right off the bat if I’m interested in someone, and I don’t want them to waste their money on me and take me out to eat if I know I’m not interested in that person.
5. I know not everyone will like me, but this is who I am so if you don’t like it, tough!
6. I would like to be called an inspiration to people, not a role model – because I make mistakes like everybody else. When I’m offstage, I’m just like everybody else.
7. I’m so happy to be able to give kids the opportunity to learn about amazing world of dance and music that I’ve have been lucky enough to make such a big part of my own life.
8. Just because I look sexy on the cover of Rolling Stone doesn’t mean I’m naughty.
9. Onstage I’m the happiest person in the world.
Bill Cosby Love Quotes and Sayings
1. I am certainly not an authority on love because there are no authorities on love, just those who’ve had luck with it and those who haven’t.
2. Having a child is surely the most beautifully irrational act that two people in love can commit.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: William Henry “Bill” Cosby, Jr. (born July 12, 1937) is an American comedian, actor, author, television producer, musician and activist. A veteran stand-up performer, he got his start at various clubs, then landed a starring role in the 1960s action show, I Spy. He later starred in his own series, The Bill Cosby Show, in 1969. He was one of the major characters on the children’s television show, The Electric Company, for its first two seasons, and created the humorous educational cartoon series, Fat Albert and the Cosby Kids, about a group of young friends growing up in the city. Cosby has also acted in a number of films.
During the 1980s, Cosby produced and starred in what is considered to be one of the decade’s defining sitcoms, The Cosby Show, which aired eight seasons from 1984 to 1992, and is still seen in syndication. The sitcom highlighted the experiences and growth of an upper-middle-class African American family. He also produced the hit sitcom, A Different World, which became second to The Cosby Show in ratings. In the 1990s, he starred in Cosby, which aired from 1996 to 2000, and during the show’s last two seasons, hosted Kids Say the Darndest Things.
His good-natured, fatherly image has made him a popular personality and garnered him the nickname of “America’s Dad“. He has been a sought-after spokesman over the years, and has endorsed a number of products, including Jell-O pudding, Kodak film, Ford, Texas Instruments, and Coca-Cola, including New Coke. In 2002, scholar Molefi Kete Asante included him in his book, the 100 Greatest African Americans.
In 1976, Cosby earned a Doctor of Education degree from the University of Massachusetts. For his doctoral research, he wrote a dissertation entitled, “An Integration of the Visual Media Via ‘Fat Albert And The Cosby Kids’ Into the Elementary School Curriculum as a Teaching Aid and Vehicle to Achieve Increased Learning”.
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Sayings by Bill Cosby
1. Even though your kids will consistently do the exact opposite of what you’re telling them to do, you have to keep loving them just as much.
2. In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.
3. Nothing I’ve ever done has given me more joys and rewards than being a father to my children.
4. People can be more forgiving than you can imagine. But you have to forgive yourself. Let go of what’s bitter and move on.
5. Raising children is an incredibly hard and risky business in which no cumulative wisdom is gained: each generation repeats the mistakes the previous one made.
6. Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.
7. Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope.
8. A new father quickly learns that his child invariably comes to the bathroom at precisely the times when he’s in there, as if he needed company. The only way for this father to be certain of bathroom privacy is to shave at the gas station.
Benjamin Disraeli Love Quotes and Sayings
1. The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end.
2. We are all born for love… it is the principle existence and it’s only end.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Benjamin Disraeli, 1st Earl of Beaconsfield, KG, PC, FRS, (21 December 1804 – 19 April 1881) was a British Prime Minister, parliamentarian, Conservative statesman and literary figure. He served in government for three decades, twice as Prime Minister. A teenage convert to Anglicanism, he was nonetheless the country’s first and thus far only Prime Minister of Jewish heritage. He played an instrumental role in the creation of the modern Conservative Party after the Corn Laws schism of 1846.
Although a major figure in the protectionist wing of the Conservative Party after 1844, Disraeli’s relations with the other leading figures in the party, particularly Lord Derby, the overall leader, were often strained. Not until the 1860s would Derby and Disraeli be on easy terms, and the latter’s succession of the former assured. From 1852 onwards, Disraeli’s career would also be marked by his often intense rivalry with William Gladstone, who eventually rose to become leader of the Liberal Party. In this feud, Disraeli was aided by his warm friendship with Queen Victoria, who came to detest Gladstone during the latter’s first premiership in the 1870s. In 1876 Disraeli was raised to the peerage as the Earl of Beaconsfield, capping nearly four decades in the House of Commons.
Before and during his political career, Disraeli was well-known as a literary and social figure, although his novels are not generally regarded as a part of the Victorian literary canon. He mainly wrote romances, of which Sybil and Vivian Grey are perhaps the best-known today. He is exceptional among British Prime Ministers for having gained equal social and political renown. He was twice successful as the Glasgow University Conservative Association’s candidate for Rector of the University, holding the post for two full terms between 1871 and 1877.
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Sayings by Benjamin Disraeli
1. Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action.
2. Change is inevitable. Change is constant.
3. Circumstances are beyond human control, but our conduct is in our own power.
4. I am prepared for the worst, but hope for the best.
5. One secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes.
6. The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.
7. Through perseverance many people win success out of what seemed destined to be certain failure.
Posted on Oct 09, 2008 under B, Brian Andres |
1. We sat side by side in the morning light and looked out at the future together.
Blaise Pascal’s Love Quotes and Famous Sayings
1. Clarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves.
2. The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.
3. When we are in love we seem to ourselves quite different from what we were before.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Blaise Pascal (French pronunciation: [blɛz paskal]), (June 19, 1623, in Clermont-Ferrand, France – August 19, 1662, in Paris) was a French mathematician, physicist, and religious philosopher. He was a child prodigy who was educated by his father, a civil servant. Pascal’s earliest work was in the natural and applied sciences where he made important contributions to the construction of mechanical calculators, the study of fluids, and clarified the concepts of pressure and vacuum by generalizing the work of Evangelista Torricelli. Pascal also wrote in defense of the scientific method.
Pascal was a mathematician of the first order. He helped create two major new areas of research. He wrote a significant treatise on the subject of projective geometry at the age of sixteen, and later corresponded with Pierre de Fermat on probability theory, strongly influencing the development of modern economics and social science. Following Galileo and Torricelli, in 1646 he refuted Aristotle’s followers who insisted that nature abhors a vacuum. His results caused many disputes before being accepted.
In 1646, he and his sister Jacqueline identified with the religious movement within Catholicism known by its detractors as Jansenism. His father died in 1651. Following a mystical experience in late 1654, he had his “second conversion”, abandoned his scientific work, and devoted himself to philosophy and theology. His two most famous works date from this period: the Lettres provinciales and the Pensées, the former set in the conflict between Jansenists and Jesuits. In this year, he also wrote an important treatise on the arithmetic of triangles. Between 1658 and 1659 he wrote on the cycloid and its use in calculating the volume of solids.
Pascal had poor health throughout his life and his death came just two months after his 39th birthday.
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Famous Sayings by Blaise Pascal
1. All human evil comes from a single cause, man’s inability to sit still in a room.
2. Contradiction is not a sign of falsity, nor the lack of contradiction a sign of truth.
3. Do you wish people to think well of you? Don’t speak well of yourself.
4. Justice and power must be brought together, so that whatever is just may be powerful, and whatever is powerful may be just.
5. Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.
6. Noble deeds that are concealed are most esteemed.
7. People are generally better persuaded by the reasons which they have themselves discovered than by those which have come in to the mind of others.
8. The strength of a man’s virtue should not be measured by his special exertions, but by his habitual acts.
Posted on Oct 07, 2008 under Anti-war activist, Atheist, B, Bertrand Russell, British philosopher, Historian, Logician, Mathematician, Nobel Prize in Literature, Pacifist, Socialist |
Bertrand Russell Love Quotes and Sayings
1. Love is something far more than desire for sexual intercourse; it is the principal means of escape from the loneliness which afflicts most men and women throughout the greater part of their lives.
2. Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.
3. The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge.
4. To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
5. There will still be things that machines cannot do. They will not produce great art or great literature or great philosophy; they will not be able to discover the secret springs of happiness in the human heart; they will know nothing of love and friendship.
6. Many people when they fall in love look for a little haven of refuge from the world, where they can be sure of being admired when they are not admirable, and praised when they are not praiseworthy.
7. Marriage is for women the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Bertrand Arthur William Russell, 3rd Earl Russell, OM, FRS (18 May 1872 – 2 February 1970), commonly known as simply Bertrand Russell, was a British philosopher, logician, mathematician, historian, atheist, social reformer, socialist and pacifist. Although he spent the majority of his life in England, he was born in Wales, where he also died.
Russell led the British “revolt against idealism” in the early 1900s and is considered one of the founders of analytic philosophy along with his protégé Wittgenstein and his elder Frege. He co-authored, with A. N. Whitehead, Principia Mathematica, an attempt to ground mathematics on logic. His philosophical essay “On Denoting” has been considered a “paradigm of philosophy.” Both works have had a considerable influence on logic, mathematics, set theory, linguistics and analytic philosophy.
He was a prominent anti-war activist, championing free trade between nations and anti-imperialism. Russell was imprisoned for his pacifist activism during World War I, campaigned against Adolf Hitler, for nuclear disarmament, criticised Soviet totalitarianism and the United States of America’s involvement in the Vietnam War.
In 1950, Russell was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature, “in recognition of his varied and significant writings in which he champions humanitarian ideals and freedom of thought.”
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Sayings by Bertrand Ruussell:
1. Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.
2. Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.
3. The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.
4. Those who forget good and evil and seek only to know the facts are more likely to achieve good than those who view the world through the distorting medium of their own desires.
5. We are faced with the paradoxical fact that education has become one of the chief obstacles to intelligence and freedom of thought.
6. A hallucination is a fact, not an error; what is erroneous is a judgment based upon it.
7. A happy life must be to a great extent a quiet life, for it is only in an atmosphere of quiet that true joy dare live.
8. A life without adventure is likely to be unsatisfying, but a life in which adventure is allowed to take whatever form it will is sure to be short.
9. Religion is something left over from the infancy of our intelligence, it will fade away as we adopt reason and science as our guidelines.
10. Envy consists in seeing things never in themselves, but only in their relations. If you desire glory, you may envy Napoleon, but Napoleon envied Caesar, Caesar envied Alexander, and Alexander, I daresay, envied Hercules, who never existed.
11. A sense of duty is useful in work but offensive in personal relations. People wish to be liked, not to be endured with patient resignation.
12. Against my will, in the course of my travels, the belief that everything worth knowing was known at Cambridge gradually wore off. In this respect my travels were very useful to me.
13. Freedom in general may be defined as the absence of obstacles to the realization of desires.
14. Almost everything that distinguishes the modern world from earlier centuries is attributable to science, which achieved its most spectacular triumphs in the seventeenth century.
15. Anything you’re good at contributes to happiness.
16. Aristotle could have avoided the mistake of thinking that women have fewer teeth than men, by the simple device of asking Mrs. Aristotle to keep her mouth open while he counted.
17. The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.
18. Extreme hopes are born from extreme misery.
19. War does not determine who is right – only who is left.
20. Boredom is … a vital problem for the moralist, since half the sins of mankind are caused by the fear of it.
21. Both in thought and in feeling, even though time be real, to realise the unimportance of time is the gate of wisdom.
22. Neither a man nor a crowd nor a nation can be trusted to act humanely or to think sanely under the influence of a great fear.
23. Many a man will have the courage to die gallantly, but will not have the courage to say, or even to think, that the cause for which he is asked to die is an unworthy one.
24. One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one’s work is terribly important.
25. To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.
26. Democracy is the process by which people choose the man who’ll get the blame.
27. Dogmatism and skepticism are both, in a sense, absolute philosophies; one is certain of knowing, the other of not knowing. What philosophy should dissipate is certainty, whether of knowledge or ignorance.
28. I believe in using words, not fists. I believe in my outrage knowing people are living in boxes on the street. I believe in honesty. I believe in a good time. I believe in good food. I believe in sex.
29. I think we ought always to entertain our opinions with some measure of doubt. I shouldn’t wish people dogmatically to believe any philosophy, not even mine.
30. I’ve made an odd discovery. Every time I talk to a savant I feel quite sure that happiness is no longer a possibility. Yet when I talk with my gardener, I’m convinced of the opposite.
31. If all our happiness is bound up entirely in our personal circumstances it is difficult not to demand of life more than it has to give.
32. If there were in the world today any large number of people who desired their own happiness more than they desired the unhappiness of others, we could have a paradise in a few years.
33. The secret of happiness is this: let your interests be as wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostile.
34. There is no need to worry about mere size. We do not necessarily respect a fat man more than a thin man. Sir Isaac Newton was very much smaller than a hippopotamus, but we do not on that account value him less.
35. Three passions, simple but overwhelmingly strong, have governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind.
Buddha’s Love Quotes and Other Quotes
1. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
2. The thought manifests as the word. The word manifests as the deed. The deed develops into habit. And the habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways with care. And let it spring from love, born out of concern for all beings.
3. Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.
4. Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
5. A family is a place where minds come in contact with one another. If these minds love one another, the home will be as beautiful as a flower garden. But if these minds get out of harmony with one another it is like a storm that plays havoc with the garden.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Siddhārtha Gautama (Sanskrit: सिद्धार्थ गौतम; Pali:सिद्धाथ गोतम Siddhattha Gotama) was a spiritual teacher from the north eastern region of South Asia who founded Buddhism. In most Buddhist traditions, he is regarded as the Supreme Buddha (P. sammāsambuddha, S. samyaksaṃbuddha ) of our age, “Buddha” meaning “awakened one” or “the enlightened one.” The time of his birth and death are uncertain: most early 20th-century historians dated his lifetime as c. 563 BCE (Before Common Era) to 483 BCE; more recently, however, at a specialist symposium on this question, the majority of those scholars who presented definite opinions gave dates within 20 years either side of 400 BCE for the Buddha’s death, with others supporting earlier or later dates.
Gautama, also known as Śākyamuni or Shakyamuni (“sage of the Shakyas”), is the key figure in Buddhism, and accounts of his life, discourses, and monastic rules are believed by Buddhists to have been summarized after his death and memorized by his followers. Various collections of teachings attributed to Gautama were passed down by oral tradition, and first committed to writing about 400 years later.
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Other Quotes by Buddha
1. A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.
2. All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.
3. All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions. Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else.
4. All wrong-doing arises because of mind. If mind is transformed can wrong-doing remain?
5. An idea that is developed and put into action is more important than an idea that exists only as an idea.
6. An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
7. Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
8. Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.
9. Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.
10. Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.
11. Even death is not to be feared by one who has lived wisely.
12. Every human being is the author of his own health or disease.
13. Have compassion for all beings, rich and poor alike; each has their suffering. Some suffer too much, others too little.
14. Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
15. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
16. However many holy words you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you if you do not act on upon them?
17. It is a man’s own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways.
18. It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.
19. Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die; so, let us all be thankful.
20. No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.
21. Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.
22. Teach this triple truth to all: A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.
23. The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, nor to worry about the future, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly.
24. Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace.
25. To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one’s own in the midst of abundance.
26. Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.
27. The tongue like a sharp knife… Kills without drawing blood.
28. To conquer oneself is a greater task than conquering others.