Margaret Atwood Love Quotes and Sayings
#1 Surfacing
1. The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them, there ought to be as many for love.
#2 Poem: Variation on the Word Sleep
2. I would like to be the air
that inhabits you for a moment
only. I would like to be that unnoticed
& that necessary.
#3 Time magazine, 19 March 1973
3. A divorce is like an amputation; you survive, but there’s less of you.
#4 Cat’s Eye
4. Love blurs your vision; but after it recedes, you can see more clearly than ever. It’s like the tide going out, revealing whatever’s been thrown away and sunk: broken bottles, old gloves, rusting pop cans, nibbled fishbodies, bones. This is the kind of thing you see if you sit in the darkness with open eyes, not knowing the future.
#5 A Sunday Drive, Bombay, 1982
5. The desire to be loved is the last illusion:
Give it up and you will be free.
#6-7 The Blind Assassin
6. Love is giving, marriage is buying and selling. You can’t put love into a contract.
7. Having experienced both, I am not sure which is worse: intense feeling, or the absence of it. [S]
#8 The Grave of the Famous Poet, Dancing Girls and Other Stories
8. We love each other, that’s true whatever it means, but we aren’t good at it; for some it’s a talent, for others only an addiction.
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Excerpt from Wikipedia: Margaret Eleanor Atwood (born November 18, 1939) is a Canadian author, poet, critic, essayist, feminist and social campaigner. She is among the most-honoured authors of fiction in recent history; she is a winner of the Arthur C. Clarke Award and Prince of Asturias award for Literature, has been shortlisted for the Booker Prize five times, winning once, and has been a finalist for the Governor General’s Award seven times, winning twice.
While she may be best known for her work as a novelist, she is also an award winning poet, having published 15 books of poetry to date. Many of her poems have been inspired by myths, and fairy tales, which were an interest of hers from an early age. Atwood has also published short stories in Tamarack Review, Alphabet, Harper’s, CBC Anthology, Ms., Saturday Night, Playboy, and many other magazines.
Sayings by Margaret Atwood
#1-3 The Blind Assassin
1. The best way of keeping a secret is to pretend there isn’t one.
2. If you knew what was going to happen, if you knew everything that was going to happen next—if you knew in advance the consequences of your own actions—you’d be doomed. You’d be ruined as God. You’d be a stone. You’d never eat or drink or laugh or get out of bed in the morning. You’d never love anyone, ever again. You’d never dare to.
3. Touch comes before sight, before speech. It is the first language and the last, and it always tells the truth.
#4-6 The Handmaid’s Tale
4. Ignoring isn’t the same as ignorance, you have to work at it.
5. Sanity is a valuable possession; I hoard it the way people once hoarded money. I save it, so I will have enough, when the time comes.
6. You can’t help what you feel…but you can help how you behave.
#7-8 An Interview With Margaret Atwood, ED FINN, 2015
7. I think calling it climate change is rather limiting. I would rather call it the everything change because when people think climate change, they think maybe it’s going to rain more or something like that. It’s much more extensive a change than that because when you change patterns of where it rains and how much and where it doesn’t rain, you’re also affecting just about everything.
8. If I really need to know something, I will ask an expert in the field.
#9-10 The Progressive: Margaret Atwood Interview [S]
9. We do not know how we’d behave. But a lot of people facing fascism didn’t become fascists. I don’t happen to believe that we are all monsters.
10. The fabric of democracy is always fragile everywhere because it depends on the will of citizens to protect it, and when they become scared, when it becomes dangerous for them to defend it, it can go very quickly.
#11 Alias Grace
11. I am certain that a Sewing Machine would relieve as much human suffering as a hundred Lunatic Asylums, and possibly a good deal more.
#12 The Robber Bride
12. War is what happens when language fails.
#13-15 Margaret Atwood. WATERSTONE’S POETRY LECTURE, Delivered at Hay On Wye. Wales, June 1995 [S]
13. it’s a feature of our age that if you write a work of fiction, everyone assumes that the people and events in it are disguised biography — but if you write your biography, it’s equally assumed you’re lying your head off.
14. I no longer feel I’ll be dead by thirty; now it’s sixty. I suppose these deadlines we set for ourselves are really a way of saying we appreciate time, and want to use all of it. I’m still writing, I’m still writing poetry, I still can’t explain why, and I’m still running out of time.
15. My own theory is that poetry is composed with the melancholy side of the brain, and that if you do nothing but, you may find yourself going slowly down a long dark tunnel with no exit. I have avoided this by being ambidextrous: I write novels too. But when I find myself writing poetry again, it always has the surprise of that first unexpected and anonymous gift.
#16-17 Interview: Margaret Atwood, Guardian, 2004 [S]
16. Optimism means better than reality; pessimism means worse than reality. I’m a realist.
17. You can’t really do this thing of, ‘Oh, your pain isn’t important because my pain is bigger.’ That doesn’t translate. Everybody is in their own situation and they’re feeling what they feel.
#18 The Telegraph [S]
18. All these things set a standard of behavior that you don’t necessarily wish to live up to. If you’re put on a pedestal you’re supposed to behave like a pedestal type of person. Pedestals actually have a limited circumference. Not much room to move around.
#19 Oryx And Crake
19. After everything that’s happened, how can the world still be so beautiful? Because it is. [S]
#20 The Penelopiad
20. Water does not resist. Water flows. When you plunge your hand into it, all you feel is a caress. Water is not a solid wall, it will not stop you. But water always goes where it wants to go, and nothing in the end can stand against it. Water is patient. Dripping water wears away a stone. Remember that, my child. Remember you are half water. If you can’t go through an obstacle, go around it. Water does.
#21 Facebook, 5 May 2014 [S]
21. If I waited for perfection I would never write a word.
#22-23 Commencement Speech, The University Of Toronto, Toronto, Canada, 14 June 1983 [S]
22. You may not be able to alter reality, but you can alter your attitude towards it, and this, paradoxically, alters reality.
Try it and see.
23. Nature is no longer what surrounds us, we surround it, and the switch has not been for the better. On the other hand, unlike the ancient Egyptians, we as a civilization know what mistakes we are making and we also have the technology to stop making them; all that is lacking is the will.
#24 Interview Margaret Atwood: ‘I have a big following among the biogeeks. “Finally! Someone understands us!”‘ with Emma Brockes, 2013 [S]
24. Sooner or later, I hate to break it to you, you’re gonna die, so how do you fill in the space between here and there? It’s yours. Seize your space.
#25 How I Write: Margaret Atwood
25. Never map it out. Just get into it. Jump in, like going swimming.
#26 All Bread, Poem
26. All bread must be broken
so it can be shared. Together
we eat this earth.
#27-29 Cat’s Eye
27. Because I am a mother, I am capable of being shocked as I never was when I was not one.
28. Time is not a line but a dimension, like the dimensions of space.
29. An eye for an eye leads only to more blindness.
#30 Corpse Song
30. I exist in two places,
here and where you are.
#31 Hair Jewelry, Dancing Girls and Other Stories
31. I’ve never understood why people consider youth a time of freedom and joy. It’s probably because they have forgotten their own.
#32 Lady Oracle
32. I wanted to forget the past, but it refused to forget me; it waited for sleep, then cornered me.
#33-34 The Handmaid’s Tale
33. Nothing changes instantaneously: in a gradually heating bathtub you’d be boiled to death before you knew it.
34. …forgiveness too is a power. To beg for it is a power, and to withhold or bestow it is a power, perhaps the greatest.
#35 Margaret Atwood interview: ‘Go three days without water and you don’t have any human rights. Why? Because you’re dead’ [S]
35. The threat to the planet is us. It’s actually not a threat to the planet – it’s a threat to us.
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Unsourced Margaret Atwood Quotes
1. I hope that people will finally come to realize that there is only one ‘race’—the human race—and that we are all members of it.
2. You can’t keep a cool head when you’re drowning in love. You just trash around a lot and scream, and wear yourself out.